Monday, October 17, 2011

Something about a liar


Lying is a cooperative act. Just saw your email in spam... traffic jam... lot of work

Everyone is against lying, we are covertly for it. Some situations arise to  "I'd rather be told an UGLY TRUTH than a PRETTY LIE"


Lie has no power in whatever means it is. It is power emergence, make someone agrees to believe your lie. Not all lies are harmful; some do for social dignity may be to keep the secret a secret.

Some say we lie between 10 to 200 times a day. Strangers lie at least three time with in their introduction. What are you, introvert or extrovert? Wait! Extroverts lie more than introverts. Good thing is we lie more to the strangers than known. Whatever reason Married lies more than singles. People who speak or share a lot do lie more.

Lying start when we are baby. First Lying with fake cry,  one year leans for  concealment.. Two years old bluffs. Five years old lie out right and manipulate. Nine years old masters the cover-up. College goers lie one out of five interactions

Everyone is willing to give something which they are ready to give up something for whatever they are hungry for... If you do not want to get deceived you should know whatever they are hungry for. We wish for better husband/wife, fantasy life, lying is the bridge the gap to connect our wishes, what we wish and want to be.

It is easy to find lyres. There are good liar or bad liar. They all do the same mistakes. No mortal can keep a secret, if lips are silent he will chatter with finger tips or body language (speaks)

We do reward dishonesty as a culture but let us live without a lie for better world.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Female in India



India is booming economically but is India Blooming with respect to Girls?

In 1900s when the print media booming the male mentality is 'chaste women never had their photographs published in papers'

In 2011 census - females per thousand male is 940 - also called as sex ratio

Sex Ratio of India - Sex Ratio is a term used to define number of females per 1000 males. It's a great source to find the equality of males and females in a society at a given period of time.


Sex Ratio was okay till the time of Independence (1947), thereafter it has declined regularly. New century has showed up some improvements.

It has gone up from 927 in 1991 census to 933 in 2001 census of India. Some states/Unions, like Kerala (1084) & Pondicherry (1038) has gone up but so called developed states like Haryana (877) specially Chandigarh(818), Dadra and Nagar Haveli (775), Daman and Diu (618), Punjab (893) have gone down

Surprisingly Rural (946) areas are beating Urban (900). Is our education and more income is ruining the human values?

How can we change the common Indian thought 'He may prove profitable, keep him, she will prove to be a loss, kill her'.

Some say why everything finally boils down to the economics? I believe economically Independent girls can change this.

Maybe the promise of quality delivery services will change the mind like free education up to graduation, a cash deposit  at birth with the condition that it will be available to the child when she is 25 by which time, she will develop into an independent woman in her own right and able to use the now increased amount in a way that she sees most befit.